Uniquely You with Destiny Pickens
Welcome to The Uniquely You Podcast, the show for faith-driven coaches, communicators, and creatives who are building personal brands with purpose. Whether you're launching a message, stepping into thought leadership, or refining your voice online, this is your go-to space for clarity, confidence, and strategy.
Hosted by Destiny Pickens, Brand & Messaging Strategist, speaker, and coach. Each episode equips you with the tools to communicate your message with conviction, build a brand anchored in authenticity, and show up online without striving, comparison, or burnout.
Inside this podcast, you’ll find messaging clarity and brand strategy you can apply right away, faith-rooted encouragement to help you move through fear, doubt, and imposter syndrome, and practical content creation frameworks to support your visibility. You’ll hear conversations that remind you who you are and the calling you carry, along with real stories, real coaching, and real strategy to help you influence with integrity.
If you’re ready to turn your God-given message into impact and build a brand that reflects the fullness of who you are, you’re in the right place. This is where purpose meets strategy, where clarity builds confidence, and where women like you learn to communicate with boldness, authority, and Kingdom intention.
Uniquely You with Destiny Pickens
S1E4: The Unbothered Button: Protecting Your Peace as You Pursue Your Purpose With Dr. Shiloh Werkmeister
In today’s conversation, I’m joined by Dr. Shiloh Werkmeister — a psychotherapist, author, and speaker who blends the science of psychology with real-life strategies to help women protect their energy, set unapologetic boundaries, and live with unshakable confidence.
Together, we talk about what it really means to protect your peace while pursuing your purpose. From learning when to say “no” without guilt, to recognizing the early signs of burnout, to navigating feedback and expectations as a faith-centered leader, this episode will help you create space for what God’s truly called you to carry.
Dr. Shiloh also shares wisdom from her powerful book, The Unbothered Button, including what it means to “press” it in everyday life and how to emotionally regulate when boundaries get tested.
If you’ve been feeling stretched thin or spiritually drained, this conversation will remind you: boundaries don’t limit your calling, they protect it.
Connect with Dr. Shiloh
Instagram: @dr_shiloh_speaks
Website: drshilohspeaks.com
Book: The Unbothered Button on Amazon
Connect with Destiny
Follow along on Instagram @msdestinypickens
Learn more about 1:1 coaching at www.destinypickens.com